If He Wanted You, You’d Know — Period
Let’s tear the bandaid off together, babe: if he wanted you, you’d know. I know, you’ve heard this before. Maybe your bestie has screamed it across the living room after you recapped his *sixth* “good night” text with zero plans behind it. Or maybe TikTok told you in a painfully accurate 15-second soundbite. But for some reason, your heart is pretending it’s hard math.
Honestly? It’s the easiest equation ever. Like, easier than “should I have a third mimosa?” (Answer: Yes). If he wanted you — really wanted you — your phone would actually NOT collect faux dust all day. The only “mixed signals” would be which restaurant he’s taking you to Friday night, not whether he’s ghosting you till next Thursday.
Here’s the thing nobody wants to say out loud: we invent *epic* stories in our heads to justify why he’s acting so “busy.” He’s not “bad at texting,” hun. He’s just not that into you. I’m sorry, I love you, but are his hands broken? Does this man operate by carrier pigeon? Last I checked, everyone’s phone is surgically attached to their palm. If he cared, the good morning text would hit *before* your alarm went off.
Get ready for the hard truth: when a guy truly wants you, you can’t ignore it if you try. It’s not just good vibes and TikTok duets. It’s effort. It’s consistency. He doesn’t “forget” to reply for three days and then come back like “hey, sorry, things just got so crazy.” Bro, you work at Target, not MI6.
He’d be thinking of ways to see you, not excuses to flake. “Sorry, I’m super swamped” is code for “I can’t be bothered.” You’re not a slot in his calendar for when he gets bored or lonely. You’re not a pit stop on his way to someone better. Let’s get bold here — you are the destination, not the detour.
And you know what makes this truly evil? The “almost” guys, the ones who do *just* enough. He sends a meme once a week and you swoon like it’s a marriage proposal. Newsflash: memes are free. Attention crumbs are not a meal, babe. You deserve a five-course dinner, not table scraps.
I know what you’re thinking — “But maybe he’s just shy/traumatized/busy working on himself.” I mean, sure… but that’s not your problem. You’re not Dora the Explorer here to solve his emotional mysteries. You are not a rehab center for man-children who can’t text back. If he needs to heal, fantastic, but he can do it from a respectful distance. Your loyalty shouldn’t hinge on waiting for mediocre affection from someone who doesn’t see your worth *right now*.
And if you have to decode every conversation, call your therapist and get a refund, because it’s not supposed to feel like solving the Zodiac Killer. If you’re Googling “signs he likes you” for the thirtieth time this week, babe, that’s your sign. If you wonder why your situationships always hurt, maybe the situationship is the pain.
Look me dead in the eye (well, phone screen): if he wanted you, he’d act like it. He’d chase you a little. He’d show up without you begging. He’d invest time — not just the midnight “u up?” specials. He’d make you feel *chosen*, not waiting in a lineup behind Karen, Sara, and yesterday’s hinge match.
You’re not hard to love. He’s just not the guy to love you. Stop looking for “secret” meaning in blown-off plans. Stop letting mediocre men make you question your magic. Protect your peace, woman. Raise your standards so high, only real contenders get altitude sickness.
If he wanted you, you’d absolutely know. No decoding, no questioning, no crying in your duvet. End of story. Period.
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