When “Busy” Means “Barely Interested” Oh, “I’ve just been really busy.” Babe, how many times have you heard that one? Honestly, if women got paid for every time a man used the word “busy” as an excuse, we’d have enough Read more…
Stop Falling for Potential and Start Choosing Reality Look, babes, I know you’ve done it. Hell, I’ve done it. We see a man who is 70% work-in-progress and 30% late-night poet, and we’re suddenly the CEO of HGTV’s “Extreme Makeover: Read more…
Attention vs. Affection: Stop Settling for the Diet Coke of Love Let’s be honest: Instagram stories have ruined us. A guy sends three fire emojis to your selfie and suddenly your heart’s doing cartwheels. Someone “likes” your dog pic, and Read more…
Love Doesn’t Look Like Anxiety Listen. I need you to print this out, tattoo it on your forehead, and maybe get it framed for your bedroom: If “love” makes your stomach twist in knots, keeps you guessing, sends you spiraling Read more…
Stop Texting First and See How Quiet It Gets You ever play that game? The one where you just… stop texting first. Don’t lie, I know you have. Everyone has, even if it’s just “as an experiment.” Same energy as Read more…
The Wrong Man Will Make You Doubt Your Power You know that feeling when you’re sending a text and then deleting it, then re-typing it, and then deleting it again because god forbid you say something that might make him Read more…
You’re Not Asking for Too Much — You’re Asking the Wrong Person Let’s just get this out of the way: You’re not “intense.” You’re not “too much.” You’re not this fire-breathing, needy banshee your last situationship made you out to Read more…
Romantic Chaos Isn’t Chemistry, It’s Trauma Tell me why we keep acting like fireworks and anxiety are the same thing? Like if some guy makes our stomach flip with nerves and we can’t breathe every time he texts “hey,” it Read more…
If He Wanted You, You’d Know — Period Let’s tear the bandaid off together, babe: if he wanted you, you’d know. I know, you’ve heard this before. Maybe your bestie has screamed it across the living room after you recapped Read more…
You Can’t Heal While Staying in the Hurt Alright, babe. Let’s cut the spiritual Pinterest crap for a hot second: you can’t heal if you’re still living smack in the middle of what broke you. You just can’t. You can Read more…